The fundamental problem is this: The first word we learn as children is NO. From that point forward society teaches women that saying no isn't polite, and society teaches men to respect those who wont take no for an answer.
The world is what you make of it, my friend. If it doesn't fit, you make alterations. -- Stella, The Morning Star
Wish I could help but I haven't experienced any oddness at all (not that I've been playing as much as I usually do - but the RMA drive is here and the array is now a RAID 1 .. now if I could just afford a couple of 500's to RAID 0 for video work).